Phrendly Review — Make Money by Flirting With Guys

phrendly reviewIn this Phrendly review, you’ll learn how you can make money by flirting online — if you’re a girl, of course. If you’re a guy, you gotta pay.

Now, let’s be clear here: This isn’t a camming website, you’re not sending any photos of yourself, and you’re not even getting paid for sexting. There is a whole industry out there for those things, but I don’t really go through them on this website.

Phrendy is something different. You literally get paid to flirt with guys who you will never meet in real life. Yes, guys pay you to flirt with them.

As a guy, I can’t imagine doing something like this. But hey, it seems like some guys just like to flirt with girls online who they will never meet — and are willing to pay girls to do it. Maybe they’re lonely and need someone to talk to. I guess it trumps sending a thousand “heys” on that never get a reply or swiping right on Tinder all day.

It’s pretty easy to sign up. Again, this isn’t about camming, phone sex, sexting, or anything like that. You will never meet those guys in real life (unless you somehow fall in love with a guy who pays you to send him a message). Of course, you will have to go through a verification process before your profile is approved. Then all you gotta do is act friendly towards guys and pretend you’re enjoying their company. 

If you’re a guy, you can sign up and get some free messages by verifying your phone number. Otherwise, you’re gonna have to buy girls virtual “drinks” in order to talk to them. You only pay if the girl replies, and they only get paid if they reply to you.

I think girls get paid 35 cents per message, which can quickly add up. Voice and video chat are also options, but I’m not sure how much you get paid for them.

Everything is done on the app, so you don’t give out your phone number or email address. If a guy is annoying, you can just block them. You can get paid via check or direct deposit twice a month as long as you made $10.

So, Is Phrendly Legit or a Scam? Can It Really Be True?

Phrendly seems pretty legit. It has a low rating on Google Play, mostly from guys who didn’t realize that you have to pay to chat with girls or from guys who complain that it’s excessively expensive. I can’t really try it out, but if you’ve tried it out as a girl, leave a comment below and let us know about your experience.

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  1. Bruce

    Wow, I thought I’ve seen it all. I can see how this can be a nice tool for those who are really lonely and in the middle of nowhere. Maybe even build up some self esteem to go out into the real world and flirt to a girl face-to-face!

  2. Carole

    I’ve been on Phrendly for almost a month. To answer Misty’s question…, there is no limit to a girls response. You can answer with a whole paragraph or just lol and you will get paid 35 cents.

    1. Ben (Post author)

      Hey Carole, thanks for clearing that up! That’s good to know. I would still assume that if you keep saying “lol” and “haha” though, the guy you are talking to will get frustrated and stop talking to you. So from a business perspective, it would make more sense to try to make the conversation more interesting.

  3. Misty

    Thank you for the article Ben! That is very interesting! I didn’t even know that such a thing existed!

    I know that you mentioned that girls get paid 35 cents per message. Do the messages have to be a certain number of characters or is it just 35 cents for each response to a guy? Also… do the females have to submit a picture so that the guys can envision whom they are speaking with?

    Isn’t it crazy how this market in the online world is just exploding. I guess there are just a bunch of lonely people in the world!

    Thanks for this information!

    1. Ben (Post author)

      Hey Misty!

      There probably is some sort of limit, because I don’t think guys would want to pay to get messages like “lol” or “k”. That being said, I’m sure you don’t have to write more than one short line or two per message.

      You do have to upload a picture, perhaps several. And the market certainly is exploding!

      All the best,


  4. Irma

    I suppose that this is a good place for both sexes to practice flirting, and for the recently “divorced” (or whatever) it might be nice just to get back into the game this way. I feel bad that it is the men who have to pay, but I guess this is to keep the scammers out. I think it should be pay on both sides (if you want someone to flirt with you then you pay) however it is likely a work in progress or someone will find a way to improve on it as they get more feedback. Thank you for posting this!

    1. Ben (Post author)

      Hey Irma!

      I don’t think girls are ever going to pay in order to flirt with guys. Like, that just is not a thing 😀 They can just set up a profile on and they will instantly get bombarded with messages if they put up a sexy image. It seems like the guys are the more desperate ones in the online dating world. I guess it’s the same in the adult industry — of course, girls are not going to pay to watch a guy on cam, but guys will do so for girls.

      All the best,



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